Suddenly have this strong feeling. No body can really listen to what I want or my feeling (more accurate). All people listen with their perception their feeling. May be I am not good in communication or express myself (as what Joan say). Really sad! All the people only know what they want and need. How about me?????
I think when I listen to people I also have the same problem. That why always can really give people what they want.
Is that normal for all the people??
7 comments:
Before anyone can really listen to you and know what u need, u must first ask yourself, can u listen to yrself n know what u really want... only when u can really listen to yrself n know what u really want, then u can express to ppl well....by then, other people will be able to listen to u n understand yr feeling well....
omg, i also dunno what i'm saying... ha....":P
OMG,
What I mean here is those things that we alrealy know what we want. And now I know the meaning that "Only god can really know what you want"!!!!!
ha, seems that my stupid comment enlighten u to get the answer: Only God can really listen to u。。。。
After read both of your comments. My said was, I have to know what I want, then structure it to tell ppl, so another person can understand better. Somehow I might structure differently according who I talk to. Somehow, the message I want somtimes lost in btw. I always tell myself, dont make things so complicated, simplify it. Some high ideal THOUGHT, if it fit into this society, YES good, if not, it may make ppl around us difficulty to get along, they find a gap in btw.
Belvi said ...
U2 said about GOD... when come to think about HIM, i will then feel better & under shelter. so so stress, HE is super to overcome human being life, human being characteristic. I am getting better & brave to tell ppl wat i want, sometimes, i repeat and put it very straight forward, it hurts both. BUT which way is better...
I have changed/// change is the nature/// i changed according the lifestyle pushing me...
Before anyone can listen to you, how about openning up and tell? :)
I like the comment and feedback on my recent msn id. Different people have different pespective and their own concltion or shall i say view??... on this topic. But most of the view or feedback I get is focus on "me" the person who tell... that why I a bit upset of our communication as a human being.... btw thanks for all the comment and feedback. :)
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